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ashes87
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Posted on 07/02/2010

Why is it when you ask people how to find love they just say wait and stop looking it will come to you? But I was not looking and all i found was an extra 15 pounds that I really didnt need. So now that i am looking all I have found is nothing. It sucks when this happends. I have been known to ask other moms and even some men. Why it is so hard to date as a single mom. All i got was it wasnt for me and its because im used goods. Is that really how things are???
i thought that no matter single mom or not that we are all good and all deserve love. But so it seems most men do NOT think that way. I would love for people to help me understand why men act this way. My exhusband was remarried after 4 months of knowing this woman and i  cant even get a man intrested in me on the internet.... what am i doing wrong??



IT IS WHAT IT IS :-)

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Posted on 01/16/2011

I really don't think it has anything to do with who you are. Honestly dating sucks it doesn't matter how old you are or even what you look like dating sucks. I recently ended my engagement to the man of mydreams beasue he didnt "love" me anymore. It is ridiculous how some people say things and then take them back. And the funny thing is he got married 2 months later to girl I had never even heard of in our 4 years together. Life has a funny way of turning out. Being a single mom does not make you "used goods" or unworthy of someones love. Its mean you know what true love really is. The love for your child is probably the best kind of love there is and you shouldnt need a man to make you happy. With that said sometimes you do need a guy, or atleast feeel like you do. The thing I have learn't is that before anyone can truly love you, you have to love yourself and be happy with being who you are. Corny I know but it's the truth



With love from canada <3

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Posted on 01/13/2011

Hey ;) I'm a single mother as well.. my advice to you is have fun being singlee!!!! Do the things you did when u were single and when you least expect it you will meet the love of your life.. ur putting too much thought into it.... work on your overall appearance... do a make over for fun... work on You... love yourself pamper urself... u were married for how many years?? Its time to think about YOU.... a woman who takes good care of herself is appealing ;)



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Posted on 09/30/2010

Hi,
how about taking the time to do things of interest like network, going to museums, sporting events, football night at a bar or happy hours, trying taking the time to pamper yourself and lover yourself more. Don't complain about the 15 extra pounds how about working it off like walking, yoga, meditation, start thing positive and let it manifest (like cutting a picture of your idea man- don't go overboard no such thing as a perfect man, your friendship with him, then wedding). If you got any baggage or hidden resentment, or things from the past and you didn't let it go so the inside of your can shine don't expect to find with anyone else especially love. Love starts within and shines on the outside. Make you when you walk out you door each day say something positive to yourself, don't let anyone take your power (you know they're are negative folks out here), left your head up proudly and be all you can be. Good luck. I hope this help someone is for you but have to hold on to faith and have a plan of action.



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DIAMONDXPRESSION
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Posted on 08/03/2010

MEN NOW A DAYS ARE PICKY - JUST AS WOMEN ARE
IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU PERSONALLY ... THIS WORLD HAS TOO MANY PLAYERS AND TOO BAD .. THE ONES WHO WANT TO GIVE TRUE, SINCERE LOVE GET OVER LOOKED .. BECAUSE THERE TOO BUSY LOOKING FOR THAT PICTURE PERFECT IMAGE .. WHEN IN FACT THERE OVER LOOKING " THE KEY . PORTION THE " HEART ".
HANG IN THERE SAY PRAY AND GOD WILL LEAD HIM TO YOU .. MAY NOT BE TODAY OR TOMORROW ..BUT HOLD FAITH



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1Destinee
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Posted on 07/09/2010

Hang in there,love is on the way just keep the faith. let is be a big surprise of happiness my friend.



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ashes87
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Posted on 07/03/2010

Single moms are stable smart strong and always has a good head on her shoulders. So its just odd men think the way they do you would think they would think diffrently thats all



IT IS WHAT IT IS :-)

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